Dating Singles Beijing –The Right Place, The Right Girl! (Day 2)

Dating Singles Beijing –The Right Place, The Right Girl! (Day 2)

Dating Singles Beijing – When I first came to Beijing, there were plenty of opportunities to sow my wild oats. However, I did not fool around with girls in the bars and pubs, and I did not go to the bathhouses for a quickie even when I was desperately lonely.

All I wanted was to find someone I could really relate to in Beijing, preferably a girl.

I know Dr. Love said that it’s the law of the averages when it comes to skirt-chasing (click here to read Dr. Love’s Make Friends Beijing - The Q&A Session with Dr.Love), but for me, I do not just want to meet girls just for a "good time". I wanted a meaningful relationship with someone who shares my interests and is able to communicate with me (in addition to a good hump!) in Beijing.

For those of you who are just looking for a wild sex-fueled romp in good ol’ Beijing, this is not the page for you.

For the rest of you, let me dispense an important tip on looking for that Special Someone in Beijing.

Read on.

Dating Singles Beijing Tips of the Year:

Where to meet girls in Beijing? Where are the places that girls are likely to go? Do you know where to find the girl that is right for you?

Follow these steps -

Dating Singles Beijing Step 1: Decide what kind of girl you want (If you have no idea about that, go back to day 1)

Dating Singles Beijing Step 2: Go to places where your kind of girl will usually go (This is termed as Niche Targeting!)

Let me give you some examples:

- If you like party girls, what better place to start than frequenting bars and nightclubs. 

- If you like sporty type, go to the gym.

- If you like bookworms, visit the library or bookshop

- If you like girls who are into pets (not petting!), visit a pet shop and hang around there.

The logic is dead simple:

By doing so, you have put yourself in a high probability situation to meet your niche choice of girls.

And it will be much easier for you to start a communication - talking about the hobbies that both of you share. You don’t have to pretend!

Take me for example.

I love music!

When I was dead bored on weekends (a few years ago) in Beijing, I will hang around a Music Shop (owned by a friend of mine) that sells guitars and keyboards nearby my hostel.

One fateful Sunday, I saw a beautiful Chinese girl who was at the shop to buy a guitar. She was playing the intro of “Stairway to Heaven” on the guitar. I approached her and complimented her skills.

We started chatting about Led Zeppelin and other rock bands. It was really cool to meet someone in Beijing who digs the stuff that I do.

What happened after that day?

Within a year plus of dating, that beautiful Chinese girl became my wife!

Guys, wonderful things do happen if you CREATE the LUCK for it to bloom!